Caring for others has always been second nature for Carly Decker, a nurse at AdventHealth Avista’s surgery center in Louisville, Colorado, United States.

Carly’s family friend, 15-year-old Asia, suffers from an autoimmune disease which creates antibodies that attack her kidneys and have the potential to attack other organs as well. Asia has gone through many surgeries, including a kidney transplant from a deceased donor that her body unfortunately rejected years ago.  

In hopes of giving her kidney to Asia, Carly began going through testing to see if she could be a match for Asia. Although the results looked promising at first, additional test results showed that Asia’s body would likely reject Carly’s donation.  

Even though she couldn’t give Asia her kidney, she donated her kidney to someone else in need on behalf of Asia, putting Asia at the top of the recipient list when her perfect match became available. Because of Asia’s autoimmune disease, finding a match would be very difficult.

“A kidney from a living donor would be life-changing for her,” Carly says.   

Carly quickly recovered from the surgery and felt completely back to normal.  

“I was pleasantly surprised to learn how safe and straightforward the donation was,” she says. “Donors and recipients are screened so thoroughly that if there is even one red flag, they won’t move forward pairing the donor and recipient, keeping the safety of both at the forefront.”  

Though the original wish for her kidney to go to Asia fell through, Carly is pleased that her kidney was a perfect match for someone in Pennsylvania. Along with the kidney they received, they were also provided with Carly’s contact information if they wanted to connect with her in the future.

“As a mom of three young boys, I thought, what if one of them was in Asia’s shoes in 10 years? If my boys needed something and another person could help, I would do anything for that gift,” Carly says.  

Her message to others from this experience is simple. “Ordinary moms and nurses can make a big difference — you can change people’s lives. If you’re interested in organ donation, I wholeheartedly want to encourage you to learn more about how you can help. Everyone can play a role, whether it’s donating a kidney or just spreading awareness. You might be surprised by how many people in your life have been affected by organ donation.”  

In early January, Asia found out she had been matched with a donor and received her new kidney a week later.

Thanks to this amazing gift, Asia and her family are optimistic that she will enjoy her teenage years and live the rest of her life to the fullest. 

One donor can impact up to 85 lives; 75 lives from tissue donation, eight lives from solid organ, and two lives from cornea donation.

In the U.S., more than 100,000 patients are currently waiting for a transplant.

The original version of this story was posted by the Mid-America Union Conference Outlook.